Hey, I'm having trouble marrying Lydia, whenever I talk to people it allows me to say 'Interested in me, are you?' or something but when I talk to Lydia, it doesn't appear, do I need the house in Whiterun first? I spoke to Maramal and I'm wearing the Amulet Of Mara so I don't know why it is, the only thing I can think of is because I'm homeless.... Thanks in advance

Some marriage candidates you have to do favors for first. In Lydia's case, you have to complete Dragon's Rising.

Lydia don't want no scrub. Save up for a house.

you need the house for Lydia

Yeah I have finished Dragon Rising, so I guess I better save up for a house then

hah i married the woman in riverun thats sister to the shopkeep that sends you after the golden claw... didnt like her much she kept having tons of guys over. id just come home from questing and bam new guy. finally started killing them and danged if more didnt pop up. it was funny as could be.