I recently found a picture from my wedding night of my wife kissing one of her best friends. I now cannot do anything but stare at this picture. It is the greatest thing that I have ever come across, and I want it framed, or blown up to life-size and stuck on my bedroom wall. It has my imagination going into overdrive, and now I just want to grab my wife and do manly things to her. It. Is. Awesome.

But I don't know if I'm in a minority. I reckon I'd be much more than comfortable with her sleeping with her friend. I'd be sad if it wasn't taped for me, but I'd 'think' about it constantly (if you know what I mean). Maybe that's not common. I don't know! So the question: how would you feel upon finding such a picture as I did?

Er, since we are the same six, I guess I'd have to modify the question to kissing a member of the opposite six. So I guess it depends what: a peck on the cheek, no, but a full-on snog, yeah, probably.

Since I'm now very happily married, I'll plead the fifth and not worry about having my 'nads cut off and handed to me.

Not really, my wife has kissed girls before, it's not really a big deal tbh. The running joke we have is she can do whatever she wants a long as I'm holding the camera.

Quite a fetish you have there, pal - and I'm not talking about the picture.

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I believe the term is cuckolding.

Question: is this friend male or female?

Female? Been there, done that. It's awesome.

Male? Well, we have an semi-open relationship but any additional partners are always with the consent of the other. My wife approves of the other females I've had because they've become friends or already were friends or in general is a person we find trustworthy. The situation has never come up the other way around, but I'm always willing to look into it. Though at the end of the day, we're each others #1.

I believe that's how it sounds. ^^

Also your poll is broken. You can only say no.

As with most things in life, it depends on the context of both the act and which definition of the term you're refering to in a case where the word can have a few different forms.

It depends on how attractive the other person is.

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As per the thread, same six as her. So in my wife's case, it is an extremely hot blonde female friend... happy bonalste

Isn't that only when it is your girl and another guy? That stuff I would most definitely NOT be happy about!

Yeah, I tried to edit it when I realised I'd changed it from "would you be comfortable" to "would you be jealous". I think you get the meaning regardless...


You know: put up shelves, fix the car, lift some weights...

Lets say i do have a girl friend the id have to say only with my consent it would be ok. But if she were doing it behind my back I would have to end it there unless i was in love with her and she with me then I would try to make it work find out why she did it and if that's what she likes then I guess I can let another women in our bedroom......

If you can make it happen and it would bring you and your wife some good happy times, then absolutely go for it.

That is a form of it, yes. Gender really doesn't matter in some cases, just that the one partner is denied the priviledge of access while it is given to someone else outside of the marriage/partnership. Again, it's all about context. My suggestion if you want to know more about it is to hit up google, because you would find a lot more information on the topic, quite a bit of it not really good for discussing here.

As for the OP, dude it is a great thing if you want to open your mind up to various possibilities and share them with your partner. However, coming from a person of experience that if your partner is uncomfortable with your idea and/or fantasy, it should remain just a fantasy. It takes a lot of trust and understanding to go outside of the partnership, and I'm thankful that I actually searched for this in a partner before actually becoming seriously involved with them.

Always remember: being open-minded is a one-way street, but performing open-minded things require an all-access road.

I can't imagine any reason at all why I'd be okay with my partner kissing someone else on our wedding night. That's just insulting.

Generally speaking, I'd be equally upset if my partner kissed a person of either six. But it largely depends on the circumstances, I can't predict my exact reaction without knowing the situation.

I personally voted that the other person isn't my property, and I can't judge. As long as the other is open about it and still treats me right, they should be able to go have their fun. As long as they don't bring me STDs.

So the meaning of a term depends on the meaning of the term? Thank you Captain Obvious!

I would only be upset by my woman doing things with another woman if she was sneaky about it or tried to lie and hide it. If she approached me and said she likes to kiss girls and more then more power to her as long as she's being smart about it and doesn't want to kiss them more then she kisses me. Kissing another man is unacceptable.

Entirely depends. Generally, if if was just playing around? I wouldn't really care at all. If she is genuinely into it and I perceive it as a threat to the relationship, I will be upset about it then. If I like the girl she is kissing and she wants to take it further, well...I am somewhat open to that. I prefer a one to one relationship though.

I guess you could put it that way, but that's not what I said.