K what is happening is that i start my game up and it runs completely fine wile loading to the main screen. But as soon as i say yes to new game it will load and then stop responding right on the loading screen. I dont know whats going on and i need help.

Post a dxdiag.
XP: Go to Start->run, type “dxdiag” and hit enter. Click the Save All Information button near the bottom right. This will save a Dxdiag.txt in C:\ by default. Then open the dxdiag.txt and copy/paste the information into your post.

VISTA/Windows 7: Go to Start->Search, type “dxdiag” and hit enter, click the Save All Information button near the bottom right. This will save a Dxdiag.txt in C:\ by default. Then open the dxdiag.txt and copy/paste the information into your post.

This is not all but it seems like this is what u need to know.. Its a Laptop too.
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System Information
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128 GB left out of 223 on the OS(C:)

Operating System: Windows Vista? Home Premium (6.0, Build 6002) Service Pack 2 (6002.vistasp2_gdr.100608-0458)
Language: English (Regional Setting: English)
System Manufacturer: Dell Inc.
System Model: Studio 1537
BIOS: Ver 1.00 BIOS A09 PARTTBL"
Processor: Intel® Core™2 Duo CPU T5800 @ 2.00GHz (2 CPUs), ~2.0GHz
Memory: 3030MB RAM
Page File: 1847MB used, 4420MB available
Windows Dir: C:\Windows
DirectX Version: DirectX 11
DX Setup Parameters: Not found
DxDiag Version: 7.00.6002.18107 32bit Unicode
Card name: Mobile Intel® 4 Series Express Chipset Family
Manufacturer: Intel Corporation
Chip type: Mobile Intel® 4 Series Express Chipset Family
DAC type: Internal
Device Key: Enum\PCI\VEN_8086&DEV_2A42&SUBSYS_029F1028&REV_07
Display Memory: 1291 MB
Dedicated Memory: 32 MB
Shared Memory: 1259 MB
Current Mode: 1280 x 800 (32 bit) (59Hz)
Monitor: Generic PnP Monitor
Driver Name: igdumdx32.dll,igd10umd32.dll
Driver Version: 7.15.0010.1508 (English)
DDI Version: 10
BGRA Supported: Yes
Driver Attributes: Final Retail

This would be why, this is not powerful enough to run the game. It doesnt have the needed shaders that the game needs. And since its a laptop, it cannot be upgraded. Its just too weak to play the game out of the box. (Also its best to include the entire Dxdiag in the future).