I'm using the orc Alternate Start option and was wondering if I could use a console command to "own" one of the beds in the stronghold, and also get the orcs of Dushnikh to automatically treat me as Blood Kin... I was kind of disappointed Alternate Start did not do that for me automatically...

Assuming there isn't a way to do that I completed the quest involving running off some Silverblood mercenaries from a nearby mine and the wiki says the female orc who left the stronghold should be able to make me bloodkin but she isn't offering... not sure why...