Haha. I have ended up uninstalling Hearthfire. That DLC was just ruining the game for me. Hearthfire felt more like washing a massive pile of dishes rather than playing an enjoyable RPG for me. However in my case the dish pile was never ending due to workbenches constantly messing up even after going back to them 20 plus times. It took me 2 solid days in real time to get 2 of my houses built and furnished and that is without the wing additions. My OCD meant I simply had to complete all 3 houses.
The main thing that bothered me about this dlc was that everything in it is already in the main game so by the time you play it, it is all redundant so you just have the option of building a house simply for the sake of building a house which doesn't have anything new in it. Adopting a kid really isn't an amazing feature either, let's face it. My plan was to complete the main game quest and all guild quests, side quests and misc quests, which I've done, then clear Dawnguard which I've done, then Hearthfire and Dragonborn. In order basically. I am a completionist so it's a shame I have to skip it.
Dragonborn and Dawnguard are story driven masterstrokes so I can't fathom what made Bethesda think that such a dlc would appeal to fans of a game like Skyrim. Anyway on to Dragonborn and I'll just pretend Hearthfire never existed.