My Skyrim family is currently living in Breezehome and I want to move them. When I go to ask my spouse to move to a new house she says okay and leaves but then my kids stay in Breezehome and my spouse is not in the house I told her to move to.

Who is your spouse?
How much time passes by before you realize your spouse isn't in your new house?

Wait until your spouse arrives at the new house. I'll bet the kids pop in there too then.

My Spouse is Carmella (the women in river wood) and I have waited 24 hours in Solitude and she still hasn't showed up.