Have you also tried searching for other games?
Today I noticed that almost no games are appearing correctly when searched for, especially DLC. This is some sort of glitch happening with Xbox and I'm sure they'll fix it soon.
Normally, all the New Vegas DLC is still available. Wait a few days and it should be fixed.
Also, no one owes you any money. There are no refunds on digital downloads, as your Xbox clearly tells you every time you download something.
If your lost your disc copy, that's your fault