Being a vampire decreases your health, magicka, and doesn't let you regenerate stamina, and any fire, even a torch (no, just kidding, but you get it) can kill you as you get 100% more fire damage, unless you keep feeding on people, getting bounty (unless you feed on bandits or dark brotherhood targets, etc.) .
Now, being a werewolf INCRASES your stamina (you hear that, vamps?!), makes you move faster, and lets you turn into a blood thirsty carnage wild beast and even gives you a new perk tree.
So, yep, I want to be a werewolf. Now my history:
I started the game as anyone else, without knowing that there were werewolves or vampires on the game. Kept going on the game, until I saw the companions fighting that giant. I didn't even care. Later, some guards said that they knew werewolves exist, because they hear the howlings. No other town guards said that, so I started investigating Whiterun. I kept going on the companions quest line until I became a werewolf, and finished it. Later, I started the dawnguard DLC, and Harkon would kill me if I didn't accept to become a vampire. I wouldn't have time to turn into the werewolf, he's too strong, so I had to accept. I finished the dawnguard quest line, and then asked Aela to turn me back. Okay, I'm a werewolf. But then I'm fighting some vampires at a Dark Brotherhood mission, and a random one infects me. I didn't know that I would become a vampire if I didn't cure the disease. After I became, I though: "Okay, I just need to ask Aela to turn me back again." But the option is not there anymore.
That's it.
And in Solstheim, there is a group of "hunters", that after saying "leave us alone" a billion times, start attacking me and three of them turn into werewolves, so what do I have to do to make them talk to me?