I was fine when I ran into the bugs where I couldnt defend my settlements and I lost a few people and had to repair a building or two.
Now I have run into a game breaker for me.
While doing Emogene Takes a Lover, I finally track her down, only she isnt in the room. Its empty. It sends me back to Cabot House to find her behind doors that require keys that I dont have.
I used a series of console commands I found on some forums:
setstage 000503B9 70
setstage 00022A00 705
setstage 00022A00 710
setstage 00022A00 720
setstage 00022A00 750
Speak to Jack about Arabia, then try to get more information from him.
setstage 00022A00 800
Once you enter all those the quest will be marked complete and a radio in the house will go off and Jack will respond to it progressing the quest line.
Minor Spoilers, I am keeping it vague so no one knows too much about this unless they have already learned about these people.
That actually worked, except when I started on The Secret of Cabot House, I get through the asylum and Edward Deegan is not by the elevator. So Jack Cabot is kneeling next to no one to start the dialogue sequence I saw in a youtube Let's Play video. Again, no big deal, I figure I will just go about my business and wait for a patch. APPARENTLY you can fail the quest and fail to prevent the raiders from freeing Lorenzo, but it still wont change my objective or update the quest. I have reloaded my game all the way back to Emogene not being in the room and supposedly being in Cabot House. (I did clip through the wall and she is not where the quest indicator says.)