I think there's three prevalent attitudes on the forums currently:
1. Displeasure at how Fallout 4 is turning out, slow to say anything good about it.
2. Blindly buying tickets onto the hype train and defending every single aspect of the game
3. The attitude you just described in your post.
I like to think that option 3 is what makes for the healthiest community. We're all here because we love Fallout, but what point would the forums be if all we did was cheer for the hype squad?