Thank lords almighty. When i first saw the title of this thread i thought "another hater, yeez" but now that i read your post it is actualy i not bad. You have some good points, i too am hoping for more then "I'm an Android" kind of story. Infact i am actualy looking forward too the games storyline. I always liked having family ties as a character, and i am looking forward to experiencing this story too. I do have the same fears though, some of the stuff mentioned is realy cheesy and cliché. The cryostasis for example is a rather often used sci-fi ploy, as well as extreme periods in the round 100 of years in terms of time skipped during that cryostasis. The story of searching for family isn't new either (i asume this will atleast be part of it.) since it was/is the same as with FO3.
Also the name Sole Suvivor is alot like so many of the monikers given to previous protags, both from Fallout and Elder Scrolls series. Its more of a nickname then a literal description of the character. Even if he isn't the sole survivor of vault 111, at the time he believes he is. Imagine yourself waking up in some facility, with the knowlige of people you knew going in with you before, and finding no living being around in the vast complex of rooms. Naturaly you will consider yourself the sole survivor, especialy after finding bodies here and there. Sure you will hope that some of those you were with are still alive, but considering the evidence at hand, it is unlikely.