Fine, I'll admit i was cutting corners a little. In the end you do decide who to wipe off the earth. But none of it ever convey's any agency. I never felt like I was a part of the grand scheme of things. I guess what it boils down to that instead of making up your own damn mind the factions, the BoS making no exceptions, just have you jump through hoops like a trained dog. If shaun ex machina hadn't been a thing what more would you have been over any of the NPC's?