Having played a few hours of Fallout 4 i don't really use VATS anymore, or just in very specific situations.
With the improved shooter-gameplay VATS doesn't really give you any great benefit anymore. It's not more accurate, like it was in 3 and NV, because shooting normally is just as accurate now. In fact, shooting with non-automatic rifles, i found that i was actually way more accurate just shooting myself, then when using VATS.
In 3 and NV VATS was usefull, because shooting yourself wasn't very accurate and you paid for that accuracy with your action points. Now you still have to pay actionpoints to use VATS but are actually less accurate when using it.