Big Dig quest. Stepped out of the armor I found in the tunnels because I wanted to shed some pip boy light on something and she jacked my armor. No dialog option to get her out. Figured at some point she would get out of it so kept cranking away at the quest. Finished the quest by convincing Bobbi to leave. Now I can't find her or the armor. Any suggestions other than reloading?

Can you pickpocket the fusion core?