Try waiting a while, I think after 30 ingame days or so a lot of stuff resets itself. Maybe then they will work properly. Also go to different world cells and then come back see if that renders it properly.
The drinking buddy quest is bugged for me and I have gone like a few months ingame time and still bugged. He seems to enter this building and won't leave the place.
Jesus.... Punctuation and paragraph please.... You're asking for help, but the way you're telling your problem is awful.
- Big Dig: What exactly is your problem? If you're talking about the Power Armor, you can go back to the tunnel through Bobby's hours and pick it up later.
- Drinking Buddy: Are you keeping the robot for yourself or to escort him to Goodneighbour? If you keep it for yourself, wiki says that you won't be able to complete the mission until you give him back to Rufus. If you leave him going to Goodneighbour alone, chances are he could be dead along the way. Yet if he survived without your escort, he will stay in front of hotel forever even when the mission tells you to talk and bring him inside the hotel.