This is so frustrating. Since I started playing again, I've had a bunch (maybe 10 or 12 total) of different toons complete The Man Who Cried Wolf - and of those, TWO got The Wolf Queen Awakened "normally". The others I "prompted" using the manipulations posted on the http://www.nexusmods.com/skyrim/mods/21429/?(after the author himself noted that the mod only worked once for him); it actually worked right for me for two other toons, and I just setstaged the rest of them through it.
Now, the latest couple of toons have done the first quest, gained the requisite level, have NOT done any "help the people of Haafingar" quests, have NOT become Thane; I have all three DLCs, and USLEEP - but The Wolf Queen Awakened is not starting.
Anyone have any ideas?