Post 1.3 patch the game has for sure stopped its incessant minutemen quests and they are now less than infrequent, but what of the other factions?

I blew up the institute so they are out, I'd supported the Minutemen, done Railroad as far as getting Ballistic Weave and ignored the BOS completely (not done the intro mission at all)

So.....

Railroad has started giving me various quests related to rescuing synths (one captured by ferals which made me chuckle), destroying rogue cousars etc. These missions did not even register for me pre patch but it is nice to have them, now they have said to destroy a BOS patrol which brings me to my problem.

Once I finished the game it seemed a little odd with them as Haylen/Rhys both acted like I supported the BOS and had helped Danse. Whilst Danse himself was a mute that ignored me and the BOS at the airport kept asking me to speak to him.

Post patch though the BOS at the police station have woken up, Rhys has just given me a BOS radiant quest though Haylen still think Danse is in some bunker somewhere (despite him stomping around the station in front of her lol)

I'm going to destroy the BOS patrol for the Railroad, and see what happens the the mission Rhys just gave me.

So what are ecxperices post patch post ending with the factions?