First off huge thanks to all the mod authors Wax2k, Ethreon, and Gambit77 over at the Nexus forums
This really isn't a "STEP" instructional. More like an example of how much the game can be modded if you read mod authors' instructions carefully and follow directions given by Wax2k, Ethreon, and Gambit 77 in the thread linked below.
http://forums.nexusmods.com/index.php?/topic/3767665-ten-rules-to-get-a-mod-setup-with-a-lot-of-workshop-crafting-mods-to-work/
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GameMode=Fallout4
Fallout4.esm=1
SettlementKeywords.esm=1
Snap'n Build.esm=1
ConcealedArmor.esm=1
Homemaker.esm=1
SpringCleaning.esm=1
ArmorKeywords.esm=1
Simple Intersection.esp=1
BetterStores.esp=1
AlternateSettlements.esp=1
Business Settlements.esp=1
VanillaExtensions.esp=1
WindowBoards.esp=1
DD_AIO_I_Hate_You_All.esp=1
DD_I_Ran_Out_Of_Funny_Names.esp=1
LongerPowerLines3x.esp=1
NX Pro - Farm Core.esp=1
NX Pro - Harvest Overhaul.esp=1
NX Pro - Farm Core - No Requirements.esp=1
OCDispenser.esp=1
OCDecorator.esp=1
Snap'n Build - Modules.esp=1
WeaponRacks.esp=1
WeaponRacks-Tools-Vanilla.esp=1
WeaponRacks-Weapons-Vanilla.esp=1
ImmersiveVendors.esp=1
BusinessSettlements-SKPatch.esp=1
Snap'n Build v1.6 SK patch.esp=1
Homemaker - SK Integration Patch.esp=1
Homemaker - Greenhouse and Bunker Disabler SK.esp=1
Homemaker - Unlocked Institute Objects SK.esp=1
Homemaker - Streetlights Use Passive Power.esp=1
NX Pro - Farm Core - Homemaker.esp=1
NX Pro - Farm Core - Valdacil's Item Sorting.esp=1
NX Pro - Farm Core - Spring Cleaning.esp=1
SC_ExpandedAnimation.esp=1
SC_ExpandedBuildings.esp=1
SC_ExpandedConcrete.esp=1
SC_ExpandedDirtGrass.esp=1
SC_ExpandedHedges.esp=1
SC_ExpandedLanterns.esp=1
ScrapDeadThings.esp=1
def_inv_scrap_en.esp=1
10% Fusion Core Drain.esp=1
Slower VATS - 10%.esp=1
Weaponry Overhaul.esp=1
powerful.50 .esp=1
SniperDamage.esp=1
AlternativeReflex1_1.esp=1
Better Explosives - Normal.esp=1
Better Explosives - Vanilla Perks - No Trajectory.esp=1
Better Explosives - Grenade Frequency 60.esp=1
Better Locational Damage.esp=1
BetterNPCScaling.esp=1
BLD - DD 0.50.esp=1
BLD - DT 1.0.esp=1
Better Crippled Limbs.esp=1
Limb Damage Mod.esp=1
Realistic Death Physics.esp=1
FO4Tweaks.esp=1
NoFallDamage.esp=1
CompanionTweaksFixes.esp=1
CompRedo.esp=1
Move (Get Out the Way).esp=1
NoNegativeAffinityNo[censored]s.esp=1
NoAffinityCooldown.esp=1
UnlimitedFollowers.esp=1
Scrapper Corpse Highlighting.esp=1
Repaired Roofs.esp=1
BrighterSettlementLights.esp=1
Zoom.esp=1
BetterJunkFences.esp=1
fog.esp=1
Insignificant Object Remover.esp=1
NoObjectLimit.esp=1
SettlementContainers_NoRespawn.esp=1
BetterSettlers.esp=1
ChildSettlers.esp=1
Beautiful Settlers v1-21 - BS Compatible.esp=0
NewFace_Settlers.esp=0
NFS CS Patch.esp=0
BS NS BFS Merged Patch.esp=1
Better Leveled Lists - Items.esp=1
Better Leveled Lists - NPCs.esp=1
BS CS Patch.esp=1
ProtectedNamedSettlers.esp=1
SettlerRenaming-Indicators.esp=1
SkjAlert_RS+.esp=1
ValdacilsItemSorting-00-ValsPicks.esp=1
VIS-PatchChemReduxWeightless.esp=1
VIS-PatchWeaponRacks-Tools+DEF_INV.esp=1
CBBE.esp=1
HairVariations_YoungAtHeart.esp=1
HairVariations_FairyTails.esp=1
HairVariations_Elegant.esp=1
HairVariations_Sophisticate.esp=1
HairVariations_Conversions.esp=1
AzarPonytailHairstyles.esp=1
AgentBreaPiperAlternateHair.esp=1
MiscHairstyle.esp=1
UniqueFollowers.esp=1
Jessica.esp=1
Rachel.esp=1
USP 45.esp=1
USP 45 - 1st Person Aim Fix.esp=1
USP 45 - AWKCR-Compatibility.esp=1
zWM92SE.esp=1
m82a.esp=1
DesertEagle50AE.esp=1
DesertEagleSilencer.esp=1
Chem_redux.esp=1
CommChemExpanded.esp=1
DX Adventurer Outfit.esp=1
DX Chem I Care Outfit.esp=1
DX Commonwealth Mini Dresses.esp=1
DX Commonwealth Shorts.esp=1
DX Vault Girl Shorts.esp=1
LongCoatVaultSuit.esp=1
Eli_ArmourCollection.esp=1
Eli_Accessories.esp=1
Eli_RuggedOutfits.esp=1
Jacket.esp=1
Vasstek_VaultSuit.esp=1
NanoHelmet.esp=1
NanoArmor.esp=1
B-90.esp=1
StealthSuit.esp=1
DX Courser X-92 Power Suit.esp=1
1nivDX Courser X-92 Power Suit Male.esp=1
Rangergearnew.esp=1
PreWarDressSA.esp=1
PreWarDressSAPlus.esp=1
zWGirlClothMina.esp=1
zWGirlClothSimply.esp=1
zWInsanity.esp=1
ALD Travel Backpack.esp=1
Colossus.esp=1
Synth Field Carbonhelmet.esp=1
N7_Synth Field Carbonhelmet.esp=1
GlovesOfTheCommonwealth.esp=1
ConcealedArmor.esp=1
PowerGoggles.esp=1
PowerGogglesPlus.esp=1
WraparoundNVG.esp=1
J&C Outfit fix.esp=1
J&C Outfit fix - More Armor Slots.esp=1
infiltrator.esp=1
CROSS_Gear.esp=1
ShadeArmorIV.esp=1
Under1wear.esp=1
slootyVaultSuit.esp=1
SuitDreams(5.Very Heavy).esp=0
SuitDreams(1.Very Light).esp=0
SuitDreams(2. Light).esp=0
SuitDreams(3.Average).esp=1
SuitDreams(4.Heavy).esp=0
Gurl.esp=1
JC-Shirt and Jeans.esp=1
FCO - Fully Customizable Outfits.esp=1
JC-Bikini.esp=1
JB - HighschoolHeaven.esp=1
Tatty.esp=1
JB - HmmWhatToWear.esp=1
KerriganGlasses.esp=1
cutoffs-calyps.esp=1
DelyteOutfits.esp=1
Crafting Workbench.esp=1
Crafting Workbenches - Ammo.esp=1
Crafting Workbench - GlovesOfTheCommonwealth Patch.esp=1
Crafting Workbench ALD Backpack Patch.esp=1
Crafting Workbench - PreWarDressSA.esp=1
Paintable Mining Helmets.esp=0
Craftable Armor Size.esp=1
LegendaryModification.esp=1
ChineseStealthArmorLegendaryMod.esp=1
LegendaryModificationMisc.esp=1
Armorsmith Extended.esp=1
Nanosuit5.0ArmorsmithPatch.esp=1
2pacSkimpy.esp=1
Kerrigan.esp=1
NukaRadBans.esp=0
Armorsmith Siraxx Plus Extended.esp=1
Harness-calyps.esp=1
Armorsmith Calyps Extended.esp=1
Armorsmith DeserterX Extended.esp=1
Armorsmith Elianora Extended.esp=1
Armorsmith Invalidfate Extended.esp=1
Armorsmith Pack It Up Pack It In.esp=0
Armorsmith Prototypes Extended.esp=1
Armorsmith Siraxx Extended.esp=1
Armorsmith Unoctium Extended.esp=1
Armorsmith Unique Followers One Rings.esp=1
Armorsmith JC Extended.esp=1
Spartan-Calyps.esp=1
M2216.esp=0