Is there a way, an ini command or anything to turn autosave on level up off? I have ALL autosave options disabled, I like to keep 1 hard save and 1 quicksave per char, but as soon as you level and add perk points, it does an autosave regardless of autosave settings... is there something I can put in ini file to disable this?

Your best bet is to wait for survival mode.

I definitely will be playing survival mode on launch; but do you think they'll disable autosaves for level there? I know it claims to just have you save when you're in bed, but...

Too little saves just in case your save gets corrupted or something glitches and you can't do it over again. They are still quests that need to be fixed that go wrong if you do something in a certain order.