So I thought if you had maxed out the intimidation perk you could trade with your former enemy, but when I try to talk with them They just say, "lets take it easy buddy" or something similar and I have no option to trade or command. Am I missing something?

Nope. If you want his stuff, kill 'em

Is it a mod then? I've read several threads about people trading with their intimidated goes and having them follow them around. Can't get mine to do anything but stand there.

Works OK for me last time I checked. You have to stand close to them to trade, just like companions.

Hmm.. the menu wheel usually pops up if I talk to them close.


I trade with mirelurks and deathclaw all the time...

The dialog menu is awkward about appearing, but keep at it. I managed to steal the unique submariner's uniform peacefully without any bloodshed by equipping another outfit on them.