Kane... good luck with the PC...
http://www.nexusmods.com/skyrim/mods/3829/? it is not intuitive, but their is a toggle in the MCM menu ( meaning you need SKyUI ) that allow's you to toggle NPC and follower's into being immortal, if that doesn't suit ( for me it depends on the RP ) you can toggle "no dragon attacks in walled cities"...meaning Riverwood and the like are not "safe".... so you still need "Run for your Lives"... but it's worth it... even if only for the menu...toggles and extra dragon types... I play at "vanilla" difficulty through the mod. That...trust me.. is hard enough, but I'm sure you have read that others up the difficulty ... I like challenge... not mod induced suicide.