It's not wise to disable a mod and continue playing. The data from it bakes into your save file.
I found a solution
Deadly Civil War of Skyrim (Imperial and Stormcloak overhaul) induces guards attak for no reason,
I uninstalled this mod and my game back to normal
Did you go back to a save before the mod was installed if not you are likely going to have more problems in the future with a potential character corruption with the lose of the character.
It is best to make a test character to test mods out and when you are happy with the mods that you are using then you start your character. If a new mod becomes available you take out the test character and test that mod with your load order and see if it fits in with your mods.