Is there a way to have adopted children and spouse live in a modded home? I am using the Xbox One Skyrim SE. So far the game won't let me, even though several available mods claim the modded home is "adoption ready". Any help with this would be greatly appreciated!

Not currently on Xbox, no. There is a mod for SSE called Multiple Adoptions that also has a custom house manager that lets you move family into custom houses - that are set up to support Hearthfires.

Its currently in Beta due to to some sound file issues but he plans to release for Xbox as soon as the issues are ironed out.

Ah curious. What about if you own the modded Breezehome? Your House Carl, Lydia lives there. Suppose I decide to marry say, Jenassa, with whom I've traveled from level 5 through level 40. I would say we've formed quite a bond. We're both Dunmer. So I was wondering.....

Since she currently is my follower, what level is she effective up to? I have her in some pretty tricked out glass armor with a vampiric daedric bow and an amulet and ring that give her a total of +50% faster health regen. I'm wondering where I should pull the plug.