What would you do?

Post » Sat Aug 14, 2010 3:35 am

Sadly, I have to agree with iGuess here. It's all seems very childish. What the guy said was inappropriate, but nothing to get "mad" at. Asking a simple question isn't exactly what I'd call sixual harassment, although it does qualify for a good smack across the face from her.
If he said "let me touch your..pee..pee" (?) to her then I'd say it's a more serious matter, as that infection denotes his intentions. But yeah. :shrug:
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Rachel Eloise Getoutofmyface
 
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Post » Sat Aug 14, 2010 5:27 am

Ummm ok? Have you ever had a "significant other"?

Yes, I've had plenty. And I've always found it amusing when people hit on them. I always trusted my girlfriends, and I never got angry when guys would try and make moves on them. Some guys have even tried to blatantly steal them, telling her that she shouldn't be with me, etc. specifically trying to get her to break up with me.
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Jessica Phoenix
 
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Post » Sat Aug 14, 2010 6:20 pm

Yes, I've had plenty. And I've always found it amusing when people hit on them. I always trusted my girlfriends, and I never got angry when guys would try and make moves on them. Some guys have even tried to blatantly steal them, telling her that she shouldn't be with me, etc. specifically trying to get her to break up with me.


I've been with my girlfriend for just about a year now. I've had guys say they were going to [censored] her. I've had guys tell me they had one night stands with her. I've had guys smack her ass then run off laughing. I've had one guy sit on her while he was in a speedo and his dike was as dense as lead, pretend to grab her butt, and just flirt with her constantly while he had two girlfriends.

I'm done with perverted guys thinking they can do whatever the [censored] they want with a woman. Especially my woman. I trust her completely. I'm afraid of dip[censored]s causing her more pain and making her feel like [censored]. I don't give a [censored] if a guy hits on her or compliments her. I welcome that because she has low self confidence and when someone compliments her it makes her confidence go up. But the moment a man decides to treat a woman like a toy or a slave. I get really [censored] angry.
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Sophie Miller
 
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Post » Sat Aug 14, 2010 10:30 am

That's great and all but you can't change people.
So, you're going to go through life high school being some macho man knocking every guy out who so much as looks at your girlfriend? Is that what she wants? But anyway, that's just how some people are. And why does everyone do this to your girlfriend? I'm just saying, that sounds a bit iffy. Seems like your girlfriend is the center of attention at your high school as far as guys go.
The next time someone says "I'm going to [censored] your girlfriend" say "Congratz on getting my sloppy seconds bruh". See what they have to say after that.

God, I feel like I need a shower now for being so "high school". I feel like I just watched Jersey Shore or something. :cold:
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Post » Sat Aug 14, 2010 8:28 am

That's great and all but you can't change people.
So, you're going to go through life high school being some macho man knocking every guy out who so much as looks at your girlfriend? Is that what she wants? But anyway, that's just how some people are. And why does everyone do this to your girlfriend? I'm just saying, that sounds a bit iffy. Seems like your girlfriend is the center of attention at your high school as far as guys go.
The next time someone says "I'm going to [censored] your girlfriend" say "Congratz on getting my sloppy seconds bruh". See what they have to say after that.

God, I feel like I need a shower now for being so "high school". I feel like I just watched Jersey Shore or something. :cold:

Let me clarify what the censored word was. R A P E

Edit:
And I'm not saying it only happens to her. She's just the girl that isn't shy and is beautiful.
Oh, and I'm not stupid enough to result to violence when I can do something else. Odds are I'd end up with broken bones and a black eye.
I'm just tired of guys [censored]. If they can't respect women I will make their lives hell.
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Post » Sat Aug 14, 2010 1:51 pm

She has the right to have her personal space respected, but she should be able to stand up for herself. I know it's not always that easy, and there's nothing wrong with helping her, but being overprotective isn't the same thing.
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Post » Sat Aug 14, 2010 3:10 am

I don't know what ghetto cities you guys live in lmao, but my high school was absolutely nothing like that. And I mean really, you make it sound like you grew up in Compton or something.
The high school I went to, most kids were preppy/rich, and no it wasn't a private school. You had your different groups as far as ethnicity goes, and the jocks, preps, goths, loners, etc, but for the most part it was a very nice clean school, I mean I'm sure some people smoked weed in the bathrooms but honestly, that's not really that bad considering the reason Marijuana is illegal in the first place, but that's a different discussion for a different forum.
But yeah, I'm just not buying into the whole "every high school is like this" thing, because I've never seen anything like people pissing in the hallways, I mean, really?
Did you go to high school in a prison?


Well, I go to a nice and clean school with stoners. The teacher who got stabbed went to an inner-city [censored]hole, and I think rmctagg09 lives in Brooklyn.

Currently, my school is nice. In the Seventies... well, it was pretty nice but apparently flashing people wasn't so bad (but we don't have a fashion show anymore, so...).
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Post » Sat Aug 14, 2010 11:21 am

If they can't respect women I will make their lives hell.

There are a lot of ways I could describe that statement, but "protective" doesn't really come to mind. :blink:
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Post » Sat Aug 14, 2010 2:57 pm

There are a lot of ways I could describe that statement, but "protective" doesn't really come to mind. :blink:

What exactly do you mean?
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Post » Sat Aug 14, 2010 3:32 pm

I think one first has to define what it means to "respect women".

And then define what "make life hell".
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Post » Sat Aug 14, 2010 6:18 am

I think one first has to define what it means to "respect women".

And then define what "make life hell".


Respect woman: verb: 1. To treat woman atleast better than something only used for giving pleasure. 2. To actually treat them like a living, thinking, feeling being

Make life hell: verb: 1.To make someone a six offender for the rest of their life. 2. To make them feel bad.(The sissy way but the path with less resistance) 3. To beat the crap out of them.
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Post » Sat Aug 14, 2010 5:32 am

Respect woman: verb: 1. To treat woman atleast better than something only used for giving pleasure. 2. To actually treat them like a living, thinking, feeling being

Make life hell: verb: 1.To make someone a six offender for the rest of their life. 2. To make them feel bad.(The sissy way but the path with less resistance) 3. To beat the crap out of them.
And how do you propose to make him a six offender the rest of his life? Wait until he's eighteen and you're still seventeen and make him have six with you?

I just don't get it...

EDIT: Also, I would intimidate the guy, but not blow a gasket over it. Guys will always say stupid stuff to guy's girlfriends. You just both laugh heartily at their stupidity and move on.
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Post » Sat Aug 14, 2010 6:29 am

And how do you propose to make him a six offender the rest of his life? Wait until he's eighteen and you're still seventeen and make him have six with you?

I just don't get it...


Noooo....

Just if someone commits really bad sixual harassment, they can be convicted as a six offender for the rest of their life. Happened to some kid I know. He grabbed a girls chest. Now he has to have that sign in his yard for the rest of his life.
Not saying I could do this in my situation though. I just want to set the guy straight. Tell him what's what and make sure he doesn't do it again.
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Post » Sat Aug 14, 2010 10:41 am

Noooo....

Just if someone commits really bad sixual harassment, they can be convicted as a six offender for the rest of their life. Happened to some kid I know. He grabbed a girls chest. Now he has to have that sign in his yard.
Not saying I could do this in my situation though. I just want to set the guy straight. Tell him what's what and make sure he doesn't do it again.
Gotcha. I've been so confused this entire time...
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Post » Sat Aug 14, 2010 11:19 am

Noooo....

Just if someone commits really bad sixual harassment, they can be convicted as a six offender for the rest of their life. Happened to some kid I know. He grabbed a girls chest. Now he has to have that sign in his yard for the rest of his life.
Not saying I could do this in my situation though. I just want to set the guy straight. Tell him what's what and make sure he doesn't do it again.

So you would be willing to ruin some kids life over a high-school fling if you could?
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Post » Sat Aug 14, 2010 9:53 am

So you would be willing to ruin some kids life over a high-school fling if you could?


Honestly, If it was bad enough. Yes. With the current case. No.
Right now I want to make sure that he's going into a bad area when he tries to "joke" like that.

Edit:
But anyways, it's all done and over with. I talked to him and he apologized. I hope he meant it.
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Post » Sat Aug 14, 2010 4:24 pm

Honestly, If it was bad enough. Yes. With the current case. No.
Right now I want to make sure that he's going into a bad area when he tries to "joke" like that.

How long have you been with this significant other?
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Post » Sat Aug 14, 2010 3:44 pm

How long have you been with this significant other?


1 year
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Post » Sat Aug 14, 2010 5:44 pm

But anyways, it's all done and over with. I talked to him and he apologized. I hope he meant it.

I close this then.
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