I seem to have lost my gear upon entering the pitt. At the very end i got to the point where im supposed to talk to ashur but the sequence of him talking to the other dude froze up apparently. Ashur wont come up and open a dialogue box with me any more. And as far as Finding my GEAR that i went INTO the pitt with, I have NO clue where to find it. I went to the arrow that is supposed to tell you on the map where to go. I looked up and down in that mill and couldnt find my gear in the safe ANY WHERE.... some one please assist.

Your gear is in a footlocker on the floor in front of you when you exit The Hole after your third fight. Ashur bugs out sometimes. Try reloading a save from before entering Haven.