I haven't used a mod with em in over a year, the one I had made the screen green, but any movement made the screen very blurry and dizzying, made my head hurt.

Is there one out there that doesn't blur?

Search the Nexus for "Night vision" and you will see all the options...

did that, many options, was asking for opinions. the 3 I tried cause a headache, and the blurring to fast makes me twitch a bit

You could try to remove the blurring yourself by editing the plugin. For example antistars powered nvgs:
1. Open the plugin with the GECK
2. In the tree on the left, search for special effects -> imagespace modifier and select it
3. In the appearing list, search for NVGNightvisionISFX and double click it
4. In the box where it says Fullscreen motion blur, change strength from 0.25 to 0

thank you, most helpful