Never had a serious relationship, sort of starting to get depressed now that most of my friends are in happy relationships I'm becoming the 3rd wheel. The only girl I really like and who I know likes me is dating someone right now....kinda svcks considering how close I was to going out with her and then some random guy from nowhere takes her and I dont see any signs of them breaking up soon.
I'm the kind of guy thats really friendly and nice to girls (and everyone) but thats the problem, I dont know how many girls I've gotten too bogged down in the friend zone with. In high school chicks tend to dig the "bad boys" and thats definatley not me. I'm not a push over, I'm just not a jerk whos constantly trying to impress everyone.
It's not that girls are attracted to bad boys (well most of the good ones aren't anyways), its just that chicks dig confidence. That doesn't mean you have to be a jerk, it just means be comfortable with yourself and that will project onto other people. I had zero self-confidence until this year, and I had a lot of problems with dating, but now its so easy. Basically all I'm saying is just be comfortable with yourself because girls really are attracted to it, and the fact that you are looking makes it a lot harder to find someone. Just don't be too worried about finding the right girl because you will and walk in like you own the place.