okay, i can find some on sourceforge, but they're only for x64 and i have x32. I tried to install it anyway but it doesn't work.
I tried to do it in blender but i honestly can't do it - it makes no sense at all.
I've already made the mesh, i just have to rig it, so apart from the texturing (and all the sub things) this should be the last step

Look in the niftools dev forum for the latest alpha relz.