The interesting thing about games, more than any other form of media, is that people will enjoy them for different reasons. They may even enjoy the same game for completely different reasons. Some people want more skills than Oblivion had, and are angry that this hasn't happened. Other's don't care, but that's no reason to for the people who think it will be fine to argue that others shouldn't get what would make them enjoy the game more. Same thing goes with for crossbows, better graphics, spears, and etc. Just because you don't care about it doesn't mean you should try to put other people down who do unless it's directly going to impact your own experience, like say dragon mounts might not be good because for some people this will remove the fear of them, seeing them reduced to no more than tameable creatures like horses.
Second thing of course is that many developers actually listen to their fans. The upcoming game Infamous 2 completely redesigned their main character after fans were disappointed. Ten months is plenty of time to add thing or change plans. Hopefully Bethesda is the type of company that listens to it's fans. So go ahead and ask for spear's, alternate fast travel means, and etc. It can help to ask.