I installed mods using this list as my guideline, and I downloaded nearly every mod all the way down to the end of "Near-Essential" part of the list:
http://sites.google.com/site/ballofflame/balloffire%27soblivionmodlist
The only mods that I didn't download is TIE, COBL races, Race Rebalancing Project, any mods that involved DLC except SI, and any mod that were involved with OBGEv2. Everything else I pretty much have downloaded. Here's my load order if it helps, but I would also like to note that I tried turning off every mod and tried making a character and nothing has change, I still get the damn glitch.
Oblivion.esmYou Are Here.esmAll Natural Base.esmFrancesco's Leveled Creatures-Items Mod.esmFrancesco's Optional New Items Add-On.esmCobl Main.esmOscuro's_Oblivion_Overhaul.esmMart's Monster Mod.esmTamrielTravellers.esmFCOM_Convergence.esmArmamentarium.esmBetter Cities Resources.esmDA Run Fatigue.esmHorseCombatMaster.esmHrmnsOblivionScriptOptimizationv1.0.espUnofficial Oblivion Patch.espUOP Vampire Aging & Face Fix.espDLCShiveringIsles.espUnofficial Shivering Isles Patch.espSM Plugin Refurbish - SI.espBetter Cities .espFrancesco's Optional Chance of Stronger Bosses.espFrancesco's Optional Chance of Stronger Enemies.espFrancesco's Optional Chance of More Enemies.espFrancesco's Optional Leveled Guards.espFCOM_Francescos.espFCOM_FrancescosItemsAddOn.espFCOM_FrancescosNamedBosses.espFran_Lv30Item_Maltz.espLoadingScreens.espLoadingScreensAddOn.espLoadingScreensSI.espAll Natural - Real Lights.espAll Natural.espAll Natural - SI.espImproved Water.espSymphony of Violence.espSoundscaper.espDrum_Fix.espIlluminationWithin.espIWR-Windows.espWindowLightingSystem.espAyleid Coin Add-on.espBook Jackets Oblivion.espClocksOfCyrodiil.espClocksOfCyrodiil_BC_OBC_OC_OCLR_Vanilla.espMusical Immersion 1.0.esppersonality_idles4.espVA_BetterGold.espwd purse of wonders.espWillful Resistance.espXero's Fame Indicator.espLandmarks, w Wells.espGuild Map Markers.espHov's Hotkeys.espBook Jackets DLC.espMaleBodyReplacerV4.espExnemRuneskulls.espFCOM_ExnemRuneskulls.espCobl Glue.espCobl Si.espFCOM_Cobl.espBob's Armory Oblivion.espFCOM_BobsArmory.espLoth's Blunt Weapons for Npcs.espFCOM_LothsBluntWeapons.espOblivion WarCry EV.espFCOM_WarCry.espOscuro's_Oblivion_Overhaul.espOOO-Ayleid Coin Add-on.espArmamentariumLL.espFCOM_Convergence.espFCOM_EntropicOrderRebalance.espFCOM_RealSwords.espMart's Monster Mod - Gems & Gem Dust.espTamrielTravellers4OOO.espTamrielTravellersItemsNPC.espFCOM_TamrielTravelers.espArmamentariumLL4OOO.espPersuasionOverhaul_OOO.espPersuasionOverhaul_MMM.espFineWeapons for OOO.espLoadingScreens-OOO.espRustyItems for OOO.espdelivery_job.espDelivery Job - BC.espLetThePeopleDrink.espVaultsofCyrodiil.espVaultsofCyrodiilBC.espza_bankmod.esp24HrArenaAliveV2.espKnights.espKnights - Unofficial Patch.espSM Plugin Refurbish - Knights.espMannimarcoComplete.espElsweyrAnequina.espxuldarkforest.espxulStendarrValley.espxulTheHeath.espXulEntiusGorge.espxulFallenleafEverglade.espAnequina-Fallenleaf-Patch.espxulColovianHighlands_EV.espxulChorrolHinterland.espxulBeachesOfCyrodiilLostCoast.espxulBravilBarrowfields.espxulLushWoodlands.espxulAncientYews.espxulAncientRedwoods.esp