The only thing that nods me towards Xbox was that I've been with it for so long (since the year the first Xbox came out) and I like the controller much, much better. But that's about it. In the end I don't really care what I play on.
And the 50 (or is it 60 now) dollars for online isn't to bad. It's just 50. I also find it odd that people will pay $15 a MONTH for a game like WoW but complain for the $5 dollar a month Xbox Live.
As for graphics. I don't see the difference. It really depends on your tv.
The updates on ps3 are what kill it for me, on 360 it take seconds usually, where the ps3 can take up to an hour sometimes which is super frustrating, especially if the ps3 has not been turned on for a while , like a couple months or so.
I noticed that... we were at my uncles and we were going to check out his progress on F:NV, but their happened to be an update... it was taking awhile so I went an got me xbox out of the car and hooked it up and had the update downloaded before him... it was odd.
I guess thats another thing that pushes me towards Xbox. I also like the dashboard on the Xbox, it odd, but I just like it better than the PS3, its more... comforting, I don't know how to explain it.
It's interesting to see the different tastes with the controllers.
Maybe I'm just biased because I had a PS and PS2 and so I'm accustomed to the PS controllers but I though nobody would like the XBOX controller when it came out
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It seems I was utterly wrong.
So, the controller is also an argument which console to buy.
I grew up on the PS1 and 2 controller, after switching to the first Xbox controller it felt kinda weird, fat, and clumsy, but once I got used to it felt better. I think the perfected it with they 360 controller.