Yes, and I was arguing against your apologetic.
We have the same stance on definitons, where we [or at least myself and the apologetical you] differ is in how to repond to somebody who asks 'what is CHIM?'
So, one issue here is how familiar everyone is with the relevant texts. If not everyone in the discussion is familiar with them, they need to be brought forth and talked about. I'm too lazy to do that right now.
In any given discussion, including this one, it's reasonable to believe that not everyone is familiar with the relevant texts, and that not everyone has an adequate understanding of their literal meaning. I'm ignoring that, because, again, I'm too lazy to do the work right now.
But, on the (false) assumption that everyone is familiar with the texts and understand what they say literally, I'm asking/claiming various things as a way to say: Hey, did you notice such and such? In other words, take my questions/claims as ways of commenting on the various texts. I think the interesting part of CHIM is what is not said explicitly, and which, as I've already indicated, I don't think can be. But, I think the texts present CHIM in such a way as if to indicate this other thing. Of course you can disagree with my conclusions.
So how would I respond when someone asks me "What is CHIM?" Typically I assume some familiarity with the texts to start with. But putting that aside, I suppose it's best to start with a definition. I've already given one: Maintaining your individuality despite knowing there's no fundamental basis by which to individuate yourself from anything else. I don't think there's anything special about this definition; others would work. I've also said I think this definition misses something, because CHIM is the type of concept that you can't fully comprehend through a definition. I think this because of the way I read the relevant texts, which, again, I'm too lazy to produce and comment on explicitly.
As for the other bit, in response to "What is CHIM?" I'll say: Go have a few drinks and butcher other peoples' songs doing karaoke. Which is what I'm about to do.
(I'm not being facetious with that response, by the way).