I've just started focusing on getting my affinity up with Codsworth. Funny thing is I've been making tons of armor mods in the settlements that he is staying in (I've never really quested with him) and been doing lots of stuff it says he loves. But now that I'm using him as a companion he doesn't trigger any convos when I talk to him. And when I ask about our relationship he says that I don't seem like the same person from before the war. Do I just need to quest with him more? When it says "x loves that" do I actually need to have the character as my active companion for it to take effect?