i Made a merged patch of 2 mods and im using LOOT to habdle the load order but my experiences is that the recent version of LOOT has a hard time with patches,anyways does a merged patch come before the Bashed Patch?

I have been using a Merged Patch (removing all Leveled List from it) right before the Bashed Patch, followed by all other dynamic patches (ASIS, AV, Patchus then DynDOLOD) without problems. https://www.youtube.com/user/gamerpoets/playlists on youtube has incredibly well explained videos if you need help (Here's his https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BtLolEgVMTg video).