Mundus (the realm where Nirn is) is the place they "rule", they sacrificed much of their power to create Mundus. There is also sovngarde, which is a realm of the nordic god, Shor. not sure what else though.
There's their corpses/plane(t)s in the sky (like the moons for Lorkhan). Not sure what they're like though. I do remember something about expeditions to them in spaceships though.
spaceships?.....I gotta read up on lore more often.
Sovenguard, the planets, and Mundus are their planes.
They way I view it, the Mundus is a conjunction of the eight planes into one, however, they do not posses a military totalitarian system like the Daedra.
Yes.
Not corpses. The Aedra are still alive, although they (unlike daedra) CAN die (they just come back after.) The only Et'Ada to have truly "died" is Lorkhan, and even though his soul doesn't come back as him again (as it does the other gods) it still is continually recycled through mortal bodies.
Also, there has been a long history of extranirnian (and extra mundial) travel on Sunbirds, via teleportation, and in ships.