So, the fact that someone just got hit with an arrow delivered with enough force to overpenetrate a Land Dreugh in Ebony Armor is "Going Flying for no good reason?"
Um, yes. See below.
At those damage levels, you're shooting arrows with superhuman force behind them.
Superhuman acceleration, perhaps, which is only one part of the force calculation. The actual mass of the arrows, however, is quite low. The arrow would have to be going at ludicrous speeds to generate the force required to blow an enemy across the room. Which ties in with this...
Unfortunately, the slow projectile speed diminished that effect.
You're right. I hadn't thought of that, but that's probably a big reason why the effects of non-magic missiles felt so fake to me. Had they been going significantly faster it might not have been that bad. Still, they wouldn't be going fast enough to have that much force. But, of course, then we have to take into account how much "stopping power" the target has, which leads us to this...
Either blowing enemies across the room, or holes corresponding to the 1-shot arrow's size (Complete with ludicrous overpenetration) should be implemented instead.
If we're talking ultra superhuman force, then yes--and overpenetration is the way to go. I know that bullet ballistics and arrow ballistics are not exactly the same, but in general ballistics are ballistics. What happens to a bullet that has more energy (force) than the target can stop? The bullet generally goes clean through the target. I say "generally" because you could of course have a very low-mass target (say, a beer can) be hit by a bullet and go flying. But if the target has sufficient mass (like a human), that target is not going anywhere. If the bullet can penetrate the target at all, it's going to keep going until it expends all of its energy. It's interesting to note, though, that even when a human is wearing a bullet-proof vest (meaning that all of the energy is expended at the point of impact), they never go flying. So even if an arrow was traveling at the speed of a bullet, it doesn't have enough energy to send an enemy flying.
Sorry, I'm getting a little bogged down here. What I'm trying to say is that, even assuming that the bows in Oblivion are imparting superhuman acceleration to the arrows, it would only make sense to have overpenetration--seeing the arrow buried in the middle of a large creature and passing completely through smaller creatures.
(And yeah, I do realize that I'm getting a little too picky and a little too realism-focused here. But you asked me to clarify my position, so I did.
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