People have been spoiled by the last two games and don't view this as the game flaw that it is.
We have not been spoiled as such, we have been given choices, after all this is a role playing game, If I want a Bosmer that wields a battle axe then yes I would start the game with less skill as say an orc, but surely as my skills in this improved I should be able to do just as much damage, as thats the role I want to play.
If you want these restrictions so badly then put them on your own characters and never make a Bosmer that wields an axe, either stick to a knife and sneak, or choose a orc.
I think what I am trying to say would be one of the things that draws me to the elderscrolls games (and I have been playing them since arena) is that the freedom your are given with the character development. What I dont want is someone else putting restrictions on my choices just because they can not resist the urge to raise a Bosmers strength or an Orc's agility, and if you can resist this then you should be able to only build characters as you think they should be built, meaning the restrictions that you are trying to impose would be pointless.
The Elderscrolls have always harked on about 'Do what you want, when you want, how you want' These restrictions would limit the 'how you want part of this'