Then be a mage. I mean, it's one thing if you're a fan of Zelda and only like using swords against spiders or tiny plants or w/e, but most of your targets in this game are people. How you can be okay with simulating the murder as long as there aren't any of the real life effects seems odd to me.
How could it seem odd to you that someone can like fantasy combat while not wanting to see blood and gore? That's like saying "why would you play the Sims and simulate a family and not want to see graphic sixual activity?"
I've been silently lurking this thread from my initial post, reading the posts lusting for detatched limbs and blood and gore, and I think back to the six thread and I think, "this must be what the people that vehemently oppose sixual themes being included in the game feel like when they seem all grossed out at the notion of even non-graphic sixual themes."
For me, graphic violence is pretty much at the top of the advlt only spectrum. Fantasy fighting is one thing, but for me violently dismembering people with blood splashing all over is just about as disturbingly graphic as a game can get. Yes, I think graphic gore is worse than graphic six, and I don't understand how nudity is considered far worse to so many people. You can tear someone to shreds limb from limb and behead them, yet show a little skin and it's the end of the world?
That said, I accept that my opinion is a minority. I do not mind giving people the option of blood and gore though, but I simply have never played Fallout 3, largely due to the gore. If I do ever play it, I will install mods to reduce or eliminate the gore. This is a fantasy game. It's not the real world. I can fight with weapons and it's just fun. It doesn't have to splash bloods/limbs/organs all over for me. You brought up Zelda, but you do fight humanoid creatures in Zelda as well. That game series is highly successful without blood as well. In fact there are many dozens of great games that don't need gore to be fun and successful games.
If people want it as an *option* fine, but I do not want to have to see it. In fact, if it's as graphic as Fallout 3 I
will not purchase the game until mods are available to remove the gore, if it is not an option.
Lastly, self defense isn't murder. I have zero murders on my Oblivion and Morrowind files, and I didn't touch the Dark Brotherhood quests in Oblivion.