Relationship advice. : Othor Games

» Fri Apr 08, 2011 7:08 am

Dude, sounds to me like she's interested in you. She's certainly not uninterested. Just let go of the nervousness and ask her out for a cup of coffee or something. Just keep it light and fun and you'll be alright.

» Fri Apr 08, 2011 4:58 am

Hey BGSF, I need some help. I've been friends with this girl for about 5 months but we've known each other for a little over a year. We hang out everyday at school we are often alone together so I figured I should ask her out soon but I'm not sure how interested she is in me (I'm getting mixed signals) she laughs at all the jokes I tell (even the ones I don't even find funny) and when ever I say something she really finds funny she'll laugh and sort of lean on me and some what hug me, I'll often look up and see her watching me and we both smile and keep eye contact until one of us continues with what we were doing, however we have very different groups of friends but she insists on me meeting all her friends and I've actually gotten to know a few of them. So is she into me or should I try to get closer before I make my move?

Seems like you're in the zone.

The friend zone.

» Fri Apr 08, 2011 6:09 am

Ask her if she wants to go to dinner and a movie your treat. If she doesn't get that your asking her on a date, she either has already permanently placed you in the asixual friend category, or she is a bit slow...

» Fri Apr 08, 2011 6:00 am

Most people would suggest just asking her out. However, I have much smarter advice for you: don't bother. It's not worth it.

» Fri Apr 08, 2011 8:10 am

Most people would suggest just asking her out. However, I have much smarter advice for you: don't bother. It's not worth it.

Nah, he needs to learn the hard way before he'll see that.

Said the wise sixteen year old.

» Fri Apr 08, 2011 7:57 am

FFS, JAHO
Do not use chloroform. IT's not amusing in the least. Unless you happen to be a serial rapist.

Hahahahahahahahahaha...wait....err nothing :whistling:

» Fri Apr 08, 2011 9:01 am

Touch her shoulder.

jk, ask her out.

» Fri Apr 08, 2011 6:39 am

From the sounds of it, she is definitely interested in you.

» Fri Apr 08, 2011 4:31 am

From the sounds of it, she is ~~definitely~~ probably interested in you.

Fixed.

People in general are misleading.

» Thu Apr 07, 2011 9:55 pm

Hey BGSF, I need some help. I've been friends with this girl for about 5 months but we've known each other for a little over a year. We hang out everyday at school we are often alone together so I figured I should ask her out soon

Am I missing something here?
You've known her for a year, been friends for 5 months, hang out every day and are often alone together... what do you think would be different if you 'asked her out"?. The whole point of asking someone out is to spend time alone, and get to know each other...

I don't know your age range, but as others have pointed out, it sounds a lot like you are in the friend zone. Given the behavior you posted, the younger you are, the wider the friend zone you are in. One good indicator is of she's talked to you about other boys. But, if you still want to go for it, next time you are alone, just cut to the chase, look her in the eyes, and say something simple like "I really enjoy the time we spend together" and give her a soft peck on the lips. Then you'll know.

» Fri Apr 08, 2011 7:11 am

Just remember that the worst thing that can happen if you ask her out is she says no. And you feel the sting of rejection, and fall into a deep depression and can't stop thinking about her and she gets a restraining order and you never love again and your mom throws you out and you become homeless.

:laugh:

» Thu Apr 07, 2011 6:16 pm

Just remember to wear condem.

» Thu Apr 07, 2011 8:10 pm

Just remember to wear condem.

Just to ask her out? :unsure: Wow. Times sure have changed since I was young....

» Fri Apr 08, 2011 8:12 am

FFS, JAHO
Do not use chloroform. IT's not amusing in the least. Unless you happen to be a serial rapist.

I don't think it works like that.

» Fri Apr 08, 2011 12:40 am

She digs you. It's obvious. If you dig her as well, and not simply because she has female reproductive organs, then just go for it. No formalities or anything required. By the sound of it, you could ask her anywhere to do anything (Reasonable.) with mustard on your face and she'll happily say yes. Just relax.

» Fri Apr 08, 2011 2:12 am

Just to ask her out? :unsure: Wow. Times sure have changed since I was young....

*laughs*.
I can agree with this, and he only sounds like he's a generation behind me. What happened to going on "dates" and courting and whatnot.

I miss going to the movies and being all nervous. It was fun. :lol: