Hey BGSF, I need some help. I've been friends with this girl for about 5 months but we've known each other for a little over a year. We hang out everyday at school we are often alone together so I figured I should ask her out soon but I'm not sure how interested she is in me (I'm getting mixed signals) she laughs at all the jokes I tell (even the ones I don't even find funny) and when ever I say something she really finds funny she'll laugh and sort of lean on me and some what hug me, I'll often look up and see her watching me and we both smile and keep eye contact until one of us continues with what we were doing, however we have very different groups of friends but she insists on me meeting all her friends and I've actually gotten to know a few of them. So is she into me or should I try to get closer before I make my move?

Coming from someone that was in pretty much the exact same situation: Just ask her out.

Which is the same advice anyone here will give you.

True. Take a leap of faith. The worst that'll happen is her saying no. You two sound like good friends, so I doubt it'll damage your relationship if she says no.

Everything you said that she does are really good indicators that she likes you. I know its easier said than done, but find a way to tell her you like her and see if she says she likes you too, then ask her out.

Just ask her out, and if all else fails, the Chloroform method is your friend.

I also agree Just do it, there is no other way. Just ask. She might say no, and it will svck, you'll feel like crap. But that just how things are. I remember I met this French (she spoke english fluently) girl once, we became friends and I really started to like her, so I took some French classes and I asked her out in my French (terrible as it was). She said "no" and proceeded to laugh... we've been dating for 3 years...

I say go for it. But keep this in mind::

Alot of girls tend to be flirty by nature. I know multiple female friends who act like this with most people. But I also have female friends who only act like this with people they like. From what I remember in highschool, and the trend each generation seems to adapt and continue on, everyone seems to have this "relationship-style friendship", which I personally think is unhealthy, because it seems like it causes alot of relationships to flop, when they are expecting "something different", yet it turns out it's the exact same thing they've had for years with friends. (Maybe not the physical activity and connection, but the same emotional connection.)

Whatever you do, goodluck and I hope the best for you.

Just do it. I read this a while ago, and it's stuck with me ever since. It's how I live my life now, actually.

"I'd rather regret the things I've done in life, then the things I haven't."

I used to be really reclusive, and a loner, because I was afraid of rejection, but that made me realize that in the end, the only person I need to answer to about my life is myself. Can you live the rest of your life wondering what could have been if you'd just asked her out?

She's sending you mixed signals.

Which you said.

Talk to her about it, we really can't help you. Girls are too different to pigeonhole them into a single category as far as physical-contact-meaning-she-likes-you goes.

As much as I hate this phrase, JUST ASK HER OUT. It would svck if she said no, but trust me it'll only get harder to ask if you wait much longer.

JAHO, and let us know how it goes

Girls usually wait for the man to ask her out. She's waiting dude. JAHO.

IMO, a confident approach would be best. Nothing you mentioned in your post sounded like mixed signals to me, but in any case ask her out as if you were confident she was more into you than the other way around. No need for a fancy or serious "date," just plan to meet up for some fun activity you can do together and make your move. JAHO.

A lot of what she's doing sounds like something a girl would do when she likes you, but since you like her are you sure you're not seeing things that necessarily aren't there? Hate to be a downer, but people tend to do that sometimes.

Oh, and I almost forgot! JAHO.

It sounds to me like she likes you, especially if she wants to introduce you to her friends. If you don't try soon, she'll think you don't like her the same and some other guy might come along and snag her up.

JAHO


But seriously folks, that is the best option here. I especially agree with the quote Batman put up.

If you want a 100% indicator...you mentioned some of her friends have become your friends....thus you could always ask them if the girl you like likes you back or even have them ask the girl if she does like you. This might be a good way if you are concerned if she said no that it would harm your relationship with her...its the safest bet, however, there is somthing to be said about taking a leap of faith. The choice is yours, ask her out or end up regreting it when another does.

JAHO indeed. Just pray she likes very elderly men.

Budum PSH.

Just remember that the worst thing that can happen if you ask her out is she says no. And you feel the sting of rejection, and fall into a deep depression and can't stop thinking about her and she gets a restraining order and you never love again and your mom throws you out and you become homeless.

Aaand +1 zing to you

Seriously, as everyone else has said just do it man. If she says no everything can go back to normal. Things don't have to get all awkward unless either of you make it so.

Oh, and be sure to report back :thumbsup:

Do it. DO IT! :batman:

Does she play with her hair,like she's trying to make sure it's in place,while you are talking?

Doe's she touch you,or doe's she go out of her way to,when there is no need to?

Will she make conversation with you even if there is nothing new to talk about?

If you answered yes,to all three ,then for Godsake's man ask her out!

FFS, JAHO
Do not use chloroform. IT's not amusing in the least. Unless you happen to be a serial rapist.

Yeah, she couldn't really be more obvious. If you consider your situation "mixed signals" I dread to think of the exasperation girls in the future will have when trying to communicate things to you in the roundabout fashion that they love.