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Post » Tue Oct 06, 2009 10:31 pm

Yeah, by my reading you just had a one night stand with your friend's girl, and she's too chicken to tell you that it is over.

The glass is not half full, it is totally empty on this one in my not so humble opinion.

In conclusion, "DON'T ask her out."
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Mashystar
 
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Post » Tue Oct 06, 2009 6:13 pm

she didnt have it on her, i wen to her house to pick her up, and she sat me down and talked to me about it, and had the proof available if i wanted to see it (which i personally thought was fairly responsible)
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Charlotte X
 
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Post » Tue Oct 06, 2009 2:18 pm

In the immortal words of pretty much everyone anywhere ever:

Don't do it!

This

And

Run away!
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Tammie Flint
 
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Post » Tue Oct 06, 2009 8:07 am

She sounds damaged. Stay away. Get your friend the hell outta there too. Head for the hills.
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+++CAZZY
 
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Post » Tue Oct 06, 2009 10:06 pm

Do it, it'll be funny.
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Unstoppable Judge
 
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Post » Tue Oct 06, 2009 8:17 pm

Say something witty about strawberries. It will fix everything, trust me.
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Ash
 
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Post » Tue Oct 06, 2009 8:25 am

Nvm.
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Christine
 
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Post » Tue Oct 06, 2009 5:13 pm

Don't even get involved,even if you do really like her I assure you she isn't the type to be involved with.

And seriously dude,if you do get involved with her sit down and talk to your friend in person about it.
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Baylea Isaacs
 
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Post » Tue Oct 06, 2009 7:05 pm

Try for a devil's threeway and then ditch her :tops:
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Patrick Gordon
 
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Post » Tue Oct 06, 2009 11:24 am

Women! *throws hands in air and stomps off*
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Kill Bill
 
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Post » Tue Oct 06, 2009 4:36 pm

ok, now heres another question, what if best friend is ok with it


No damnit!

Any girl who ever even implies the notion of dating two guys at once is clearly VERY immature and not at all ready for a relationship. Turn and run, don't get involved in that stupid [censored].

EDIT: As said before, if she cheated on her boyfriend whom she apparently, "Loves vewy vewy much." On the FIRST DAY she met you. Chances are she'll meet someone who'll replace you and then you're gonna be the ass who got cheated on. Not cool man, not cool AT ALL. Bit of a [censored] slap to your friends' face.
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J.P loves
 
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Post » Tue Oct 06, 2009 3:22 pm

Ask her if you can date her and her friend/sister/cousin/mom at the same time.
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Ross
 
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Post » Tue Oct 06, 2009 1:27 pm

She sounds damaged. Stay away. Get your friend the hell outta there too. Head for the hills.

Together. And live happily ever after. :)
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Yvonne
 
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Post » Tue Oct 06, 2009 8:16 am

I can only echo others who are telling you to run away. You got carried away in the, ah, heat of the moment. It was stupid. You will have lost a friend and sorry, that girl sounds like waaaaaay more trouble than she will be worth.
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Gemma Woods Illustration
 
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Post » Tue Oct 06, 2009 10:10 pm

GTFO and check for STD :obliviongate:
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ShOrty
 
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Post » Tue Oct 06, 2009 7:15 pm

Together. And live happily ever after. :)

:o Caught in a rad bromance!
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marina
 
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Post » Tue Oct 06, 2009 9:55 pm

God forbid a woman should be sixually agressive, the [censored]. How dare she!
Only men are allowed to [censored] around like that and get respect for it.
As for friends who use their BF girlfriend for sixytimes, and allow themselves to be used, you get no sympathy from me.
Deal with the consequences of your actions, and man the [censored] up.


And as for damaged, people are not born that way.

"stalks off"
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Tiffany Castillo
 
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Post » Tue Oct 06, 2009 10:51 am

God forbid a woman should be sixually agressive, the [censored]. How dare she!
Only men are allowed to [censored] around like that and get respect for it.
As for friends who use their BF girlfriend for sixytimes, and allow themselves to be used, you get no sympathy from me.
Deal with the consequences of your actions, and man the [censored] up.


And as for damaged, people are not born that way.

"stalks off"

:laugh: she is rather hot
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meghan lock
 
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Post » Tue Oct 06, 2009 8:29 am

At the same time? no no no no no no. Tell her to make her mind up, its either you or him. A thing like that can be really messy. I don′t know her personally so im just taking a stab in the dark really but it does just sound like shes using you. Even if she does choose you id think hard about it. She doesn′t sound too nice, but for all i know she could be genuinely hurt and confused about what to do. The both of you thing could just be her just being confused over which to pick.
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Mel E
 
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Post » Tue Oct 06, 2009 12:13 pm

God forbid a woman should be sixually agressive, the [censored]. How dare she!
Only men are allowed to [censored] around like that and get respect for it.
As for friends who use their BF girlfriend for sixytimes, and allow themselves to be used, you get no sympathy from me.
Deal with the consequences of your actions, and man the [censored] up.


And as for damaged, people are not born that way.

"stalks off"



I'd never praise a guy who cheated on his girlfriend with a girl he only knew for a day, and I'm sure a lot of people wouldn't. I think you may be stereotyping every male on earth as a drunken frat-boy. ;)
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Angela Woods
 
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Post » Tue Oct 06, 2009 11:05 am

Promiscuity is not the issue, the issue is that the both of them can't communicate honestly.
No hope for sucess in a relationship that way.
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James Rhead
 
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Post » Tue Oct 06, 2009 7:10 pm

Confirmation, though none is ever really needed, of the old adage, "A stiff [censored] has no conscience."
A friend lost, anything worthwhile gained?

... Didn't know that word was censored. Normally, you are allowed to [censored] your finger, even if it is forbidden to finger your [censored].
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victoria gillis
 
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Post » Tue Oct 06, 2009 8:52 am

There is only one solution.

Fight to the death!




Or you can just leave the relationship alone.
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claire ley
 
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Post » Tue Oct 06, 2009 10:53 am

Yes, you should definitely run as far away as possible. I really don't know why someone would go on and have six with some crazy girl who would pour her heart out on the first day, cheat on her boyfriend (who is your best friend... though through your actions, I highly doubt you see him that way), and then keep on pouring her heart out. I guess some guys will have six with anything approaching them with spread legs... I fear for the coffee table...

Anyway, it seems as though she has been planning to cheat for a while now, and was just waiting for a guy to come by so she can do it. Ignore all the crap about 'connection' and 'love' and whatnot, 'cause she's probably been rehearsing that in her head for ages.

There's nothing wrong with a sixually aggressive girl, but there is something not right if she's willing to open her legs for any guy coming by (could be something that's happened to her, or it could be the way she just is). If I were in your position, I would've left her, told my best friend, and then the two of you can leave her alone to go screw other guys.

six! *Throws hands in air and stomps off*

EDIT: I think my second paragraph could be applicable to most people; but I do understand that the persuasion is normal that casual six is normal and six quite early is good. I'm just different...
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Stace
 
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Post » Tue Oct 06, 2009 2:20 pm

That, or he could just say [censored] it and go for it. If it works, it works. If it doesn't, it doesn't. Might as well try if their friendship is already ruined.
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