Its not being sixually aggressive that's the problem. Its the fact that she CHEATED ON HER BOYFRIEND WITH SOMEONE SHE KNEW FOR A DAY. And then turned around and said she loved both of them and wanted BOTH guys. Mamagato... what you just spewed forth was one of the most sixist, bull [censored] comments I've ever read. Also, any man/woman who [censored]s around with their friends' partner deserves no [censored] respect for it. As a matter of fact, I've never encountered a case where a man/woman cheated with the best friend and it was all funny and dandy with the people who knew about it. It was a [censored] thing to do.
Please think a bit more clearly, and think like Summer. Label cans, not people. Shame on you.
I do agree with your last statement. OP, man the [censored] up and deal with it.
[censored] that he didn't know her, she's his best friend's girlfriend. Her problem isn't that she enjoys causal six, it is that she cannot communicate with her boyfriend honestly, and neither can the supposed best friend who screwed her.
Number one important thing in a relationship is communication. People are not perfect, they make mistakes. That the relationship was in trouble, both mentally and phyiscally should have been number one on the priority list. Not her willingness to fornicate. All parties here are to blame, BF, GF, and BFF who screws BF's GF.
I am thinking a damn sight clearer than most people here.
As for sixist, don't hand me that [censored], walk a mile in a womans's shoes,