I think we're at the same place. But do you install every option? If not, do the items that are downloaded (waiting for you to choose them), disappear, or do you still see them the next time?
Mine download, wait for me to choose what I want to install, then install. What doesn't get installed stays downloaded (not installed, but ready), and there's no check or delete button. So essentially I have the unwanted updates taking up space.
And how the new carpet?
Nows that you mention it, I don't know what happens to the ones I don't want to install. Usually they are all necessary, but once in awhile I might not want one, like windows live, I don't even use that so I never install that one. I don't know what you can do about finding the ones that have downloaded and are waiting for install, though. Maybe find someone smarter than I am.
Hahaha! You remembered I was getting new carpet installed? It's oatmeal, or chocolate chip cookie, whatever you want to call it. That very light beige color with darker flecks in it. However, with grandkids who come over frequently who like to use colored markers, it gets a little more color than I'd like. Thank God the markers are water soluble and not permanent in nature.