I hope this doesn't turn into an argument about whether they are great for games or stupid, etc.

What I want to know is if there are any other than the SO mods. Those mods disturb me as some of them add in nonconsensual intercourse.

I'm just looking for a mod that can give me a gal, preferably as a follower. Obviously any mod for FO:NV should be gritty, I'm not necessarily looking for rainbows or kittens.

I've been searching the web and have not come across any.

http://www.nexusmods.com/newvegas/mods/41779/?

There is a six option in the Romance part of her quest line, but it is the Fade to Black just like with Red Lucy, so no gratuitousness there.

While a little bit of pinch and tickle would be funny, I don't mind it being left out. Thanks for the link.
Have you personally used Willow? If so, do you have a specific praise or gripe with her?