
What I'd like, in order of importance:
1. To be able to get ahead of the difficulty curve. If a monster is causing me trouble, I want to be able to come back later and cackle as I obliterate it mightily. I'm assuming FCOM is the way to go there?
2. Very powerful magic; I grew up with Raistlin and Milamber, so IMO a high-level mage should be able to level cities.

3. Lots of content. I don't want to install dozens of quest mods, but if there are a few that add significant stuff-to-do, I'm interested.
4. A reduction to UI and realism annoyances; having to hoof it back to town every 20 minutes is not fun for me, for example. Nor are super-giant fonts so I have to scroll constantly to find anything.
5. Visually and auditorily pretty (last because I've heard that simply installing FCOM means that a graphics mod is right out unless you're on an uber system).
I have a decent modern machine but it's not uber; video card is an ATI 4890, for example, so getting everything here may not be reasonable; please let me know if I'm overstretching.
In case it matters, I have Knights Of The Nine, Shivering Isles, and some of the DLCs (I honestly can't remember which, except that I'm sure I have the wizard's tower; mmmmm, teleporters).
Thank you so much!
-Robin