i can play oblivion max settings and i checked i can play past reccomended settings on fallout new vegas and i checked on the graphics card due to the person saying it was made for gameing...
Intel? HD GraphicsΔ enables superior mainstream gaming and 3D experiences
Oblivion is quite few years old now. It's not a good benchmark for a 2011 game. The Intels are known for being poor performers as a gaming chipset, often lacking required features (Such as the correct shader support for Fallout 3) They also work by 'leeching' memory from the main system RAM often leaving you with a lot less than you paid for.
It may be you have one of the better intels thats capable of running modern games more intensive than Mincraft. But 'Intel? HD GraphicsΔ' doesn't give enough info for us to go on.
so now im basicly asking will the game have to good of graphics and to much going on to where my procceser cannot handle it even on min settings?
Unknown. The minimum requirements haven't been announced yet so no one can pass any judgement.
But do remember Skyrim is on a newer more advanced engine that the somewhat decrepit Gamebryo engine used by Oblivion and the two recent Fallouts (The current version is around 3-4 years old minimum) It may be that you can run it, but you may have to wait and borrow it from a friend once it's released in order to find out how it runs.
Another thing. 'New' is a misnomer in computers. A laptop you bought new may actually be several years old with regards to text. Most new
top of the line laptops are shifting with a lot more RAM than you have.
In any case, you are better off taking a wait and see attitude and waiting for reviews and tech reports on supported graphics providers (Min requirements only ever list Nvidia or ATI cards) rather than rushing out to buy on release.