please fully read before flaming me and calling me prejudice.
Ok this is what I think, in every ES game that I have played gender has no difference except for appearance (at least not that I recall). But I think it would be more appropriate to have genders have different positives and negatives. Like males would have higher strength and intelligence. And females would have higher personality and wisdom. And skills could be effected too like males, would have higher fighting skills and females would have higher stealth/dealing with other character skills and both would be about equal for magic.
Your thoughts?
Sorry bud... I just read your whole post and yeah, it looks kinda sixist. Scratch that,
really sixist. I'll try not to hold it against you personally.
Let's set aside the sixist bit for now. There are very legitimate gameplay reasons not to do what you're describing. What you just proposed would make all male characters better than all female characters, because they would be intrinsically better at magic
and melee combat, leaving only the historically weaker stealth combat for females. That is disbalanced and limits the options for roleplayers. All these changes will do is help you minmax your male character. Do you really want to be a minmaxer? Really?
Additionally, attributes are out... haven't you heard? The naysayers are sneezing all over the forums.
And finally, let's get back to the "you-just-seriously-insulted-my-demographic" bit. I'm a girl, you're a guy, and I'd bet good money that I'm smarter than you are.
--- Edit ---
Sorry, I shouldn't have said a lot of the things I said above. I doubt the OP meant it the way I took it. However, these points remain...
- The proposal in the thread first post was gameplay-unbalanced in favor of male PCs and in that sense, intrinsically flawed.
- While there is some reality-based justification for male human characters being stronger, on average, the rest of it doesn't hold water. This is because:
--- Many traits commonly assigned to women, like better people skills and the ability to endure pain better, may be partially or fully the product of culture rather than genetics. These two factors are inseparable without some highly unethical experiments, and even that would not eliminate observer bias.
--- TES humans are not real humans. Case in point: they can summon fire, or heal themselves, with an invocation and some willpower.
--- Elves (including Khajiits) and Argonians are not even TES humans. Argonians are spiritually descended from magical trees. There's no immediate, "logical" reason their females wouldn't be bigger and stronger, and smarter, and better in every way. Or the reverse.
- While the OP may not have intended it, what he says has Unfortunate Implications. Suggesting that males should have a higher strength stat "because that's what it's like in real life!" is a tired old rant, and proposing that females have higher Personality to compensate is an almost universal accompaniment. All of the objections above apply to this basic template; it's deeply flawed, but I never really got angry about it. However, in this thread an additional bit of spice was thrown in by the suggestion that males should have higher intelligence. While the OP never justifies this explicitly as "men in real life are smarter than women", that does seem to be what he's suggesting. And, well, it's offensive, and has absolutely no basis in reality, not even the questionable justification used for giving women better people skills.
This last point may sound like me being oversensitive. I guess it is; as I said, I doubt the OP meant it the way I took it. However, it is worth mentioning that while gender discrimination is not an issue many (most?) Western women ever have to deal with in their lives, it is still an issue that affects lives and livelihoods, ambitions and achievements. I say this from personal experiences and due to issues current to my own profession, which suffers from a massive gender imbalance. It is fair to ask that people read and consider a post before responding; it is equally fair to ask that people consider before they post.
All the same. I was out of line. I apologize for behaving nastily in a public forum.