ugh heres a suggestion- dont use big words to make yourself sound smart girls dont like that
maybe im just a lighthearted and nonchalant kinda guy
And yes, I have done that. I'm just looking for some personal suggestions, what people have really liked. I remember seeing some very interesting stuff in the past.
Here's a suggestion - don't bite the hand that feeds you.
We're a relatively mature community here, and good English is something I'm happy to say is very much predominant in our posts, even those by non-native speakers. This is because when you communicate with other people, it helps to be as clear and concise as possible to avoid confusion and make it as easy as possible for readers to correctly interpret your post and so enable them to give the quickest and most accurate response they can.
If you're here trying to pick up girls, I can only say you've come to the wrong place, and I'd suggest you shut down your computer and instead head to a bar. If you're here to get help, I suggest you start being helpful yourself. That includes using the search function.