My perspective is more along these lines... Everyone has the right to comment and debate, however I was raised in a period and culture where even if your concern was heartfelt you'd still present your criticisms in a polite, constructive manner - not wild outbursts, some of which I feel have been downright personal and insulting.
My profession is that of RPG Writer (table top rather than computer games) and I am usually happy to track
civilised forums where my books are being discussed. I use the experience to make rules adjustments in future projects, answer questions and help the fans in any way I can. Yet when I start reading threads full of fan hatred it not only affects my writing (since it generally takes the joy out of my efforts and prompts a reflexive anger), but it also sunders any sympathy I have with those customers.
Thus in effect a few vitriolic whiners can seriously affect what I do with my next project, often eliciting a reinforcement of the concept or rule the handful of haters were so rude about. In turn they also cause me to stop answering questions to preserve my own professional conduct, since the temptation is always there to verbally retort in a very bad way.
Now I am fully aware of the need for criticism and it has often helped me create better books. I am also aware that no matter what I design/write I can never please everyone, because players all have their own unique vision of the game/setting. But being rude, aggressive or melodramatic quite simply puts my back up. Its not something you'd actually do face to face, and you'd be censored for it if you did. Why people feel the need to do it here I have no idea.
So take heed. I'm willing to bet that most of the TES development team are now steering well clear of this forum now, quite simply because a few of you guys are going too far.
All you are going to do is turn the developers against both you and whatever pet issue you don't want changed.