Thanks.
http://www.uesp.net/wiki/Category:Skyrim-Places-Safe
well there is a link on that page that talks about safe containers. I know waiting 30 days might be a pain but you could see if anything matching what they say are safe containers exist in Skyhaven temple and then wait for 30 days and see if what you placed in one resets.
If all you need is a place to store your things you might try http://uesp.net/wiki/Skyrim:Bromjunaar_Sanctuary
The chest in the room where you find the blade armor never respawns. According to the game data in the creation kit, the chests in the bedroom area don't respawn either.